Sometimes people are more comfortable living with their window being cracked, or their favourite chair needing a new leg or even living in homes filled with clutter and disarray. This is because their inner self resonates with the broken and the disturbed. Do not attempt to help these people straighten out their homes , cars etc. for until they feel the urge to become whole the mess, the cracks , the broken, will reappear . Perhaps just a gentle prayer for their return to wholeness will suffice.